The secrets of a friendship turned into a wedding planning team- choosing the bridesmaids
It’s always exciting for the bride to be when to make the decisions about the wedding, from the very first moment to say “I do” and get engaged to the final “I do” and get married. Step by step you create your wedding decor and plan it all as in your dreams. Nothing would be the same without the bridesmaids right? One very first moment when you relish the friendships you have or you have a bitter taste about that.
Not that there is a guide for how to choose your bridesmaids; it is just you having to think well and twice when to nominate someone as correlating all into the work field, the things these ladies have to do and you want them to do. In a few steps, take into account the following:
- The relationship with any of the ladies you have in mind to propose. Is this really necessary? You don’t need just a presence at the wedding but help and support. So no co-workers unless they are really your friends, no siblings based on the same theory and it all resume to people you are glad to be with, hang out.
- What’s for the bridesmaids to do? Do they have time? Are they reliable and resourceful? It is understandable to want your friend from childhood to be there for you but it implies some work. Knowing that she is out of the town you just have to be practical this time.
- Don’t exaggerate with too many, with too less. Even with the minimum of two you heart has to be at peace with that being the best decision.
And for the rest don’t worry you, don’t have to make selection again; as much bridesmaids as better.