Without them there is no wedding-your bridesmaids
As a traditional fact or not quite so the bride wants to have the bridesmaids presence at the wedding. In most of the cases it is just about the emotional bond between them and the bride, as they are the best closest friends or even sisters and the desire is to have in this special day present the people you care about.
The history, to call it so, about having bridesmaid comes from ancient times. It was consider then than the bride is prone to be hunted by spirits. They indented to interfere in the groom’s life and mess the things, by bringing the bad luck and the failure later- as the marriage to end quickly. Consequently, people made a sort of protection for the bride and its groom by bringing along with them a bunch of girls all dressed alike. The theory was that the sprits will be confused about which is the real bride and will fail in their mission. And from here to the nowadays bridesmaids presence there is only one step.
Coming from this belief it was kept later the idea of having such attendants for the bride nearby. Their outfit had to be as well the white traditional dresses. Until one point when everything started to look just like a fashion aspect. Modernisms appeared in everyone’s life and conception and so, brides considered this as a selfish aspect. Why them to have apparently the same outfit? Will not this mean that the bride to be positioned on the same wavelength in this way with the rest of the girls? And so, the bridesmaids presence was kept but with the difference regarding the outfit.
Apart from their look and integrated part in a wedding plan the bridesmaids are not just a simple appearance, a simple view. They are aimed as well to ease the bride’s work to say so. Until the wedding day they are responsible with various aspects, all with the idea of replacing the bride’s presence in certain moments.
For example, they organize the bachelor party, the go shopping along with the bride to give a girl opinion towards the dress and others aspects like this: the wedding favors and little gifts made and placed in boxes as well. As for the time of the wedding again the bridesmaids are responsible with some parts: the carry its bouquet for a while, they carry its train when needed, they place the guests at the tables if needed.
Not only this but like motioned in the first place the bridesmaids have a special bond with the bride. And in her moment of crying and being emotional about this day and this event the bridesmaids are the moral support. Just can be without them.